A TIME CAPSULE FOR YOUR WEDDING

Hear from the people who were in the room.
Years later, when it matters most.

A message from your grandmother, your best man, the college roommate who introduced you. Delivered one year, five years, and ten years after the wedding.

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Your 1st anniversary messages from June 14, 2026

47 people left messages for you. Here they are.

June 14, 2027

Toastjar

Your 1st anniversary, June 14, 2026

Forty-seven people left something for you on your wedding day. Here are four of them.

Priya, Sarah's college roommate

Sarah, I watched you stare at James during the first dance and I knew you'd stopped hearing the music. I hope you still look at him like that. Even when he's loading the dishwasher wrong.

Priya, Sarah's college roommate

Marcus, James's best man

James, you asked me once if I thought you'd ever find someone who actually laughed at your jokes. I owe you $20. She laughed at all of them, even the bad ones. Especially the bad ones.

Marcus, James's best man

Uncle Ray

We've been married 43 years. The first year is the easiest. Everything after is the real work and the real good stuff. I'm rooting for you both. Call your mother.

Uncle Ray

Eileen, Sarah's aunt

Watching Sarah walk down the aisle, I thought about your grandmother. She would have loved him. I love him too.

Eileen, Sarah's aunt

+ 43 more messages

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How it works

Step 1

Set up your capsule

Pick your wedding date. We give you a QR code and a unique link to share with your guests.

Step 2

Guests write messages

Place the QR code at your venue. Guests scan, pick an anniversary, write their message. No app, no signup.

Step 3

Messages arrive on your anniversary

On your 1st, 5th, and 10th anniversary, a surprise email arrives with every message your guests left for you.

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Launching summer 2026. We'll write to you when it's ready.

Questions

Share your Toastjar link on a card at each table. Guests can also write their message later from home. The capsule stays open for 48 hours after your wedding.

You can update your delivery email anytime before each anniversary. We'll also send a reminder a month before each delivery.

No. It's a one-time payment when we launch. That covers all three anniversary deliveries, unlimited guest messages, and secure storage for 10 years.

No. Every message is private and sealed the moment it's written. Only the couple sees the messages, and only when they're delivered on the anniversary.

Your messages are yours. If we ever wind down, we'll deliver all messages immediately and give you a full export of everything your guests wrote.